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A quick search found this: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=52... As far as "giving him a break" - why doesn't he give me a break and not perpetuate inaccurate and hurtful stereotypes?
Please don't take a tiny offhand comment that has nothing to do with the key point of the essay as a personal attack on you. That comment there isn't hurtful or perpetuating anything about you.
Doesn't mean it's not unhelpful and nonharmful.