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And people wonder why https everywhere is such a necessity now. It should not be necessary to treat your last mile ISP as a hostile entity , but sadly, it often is.
I canceled my decade old COX account last time that happened. Even asked nicely not to "help" by editing traffic, the runaround was fun. At the end they offered to take my ~$90/mo to ~$70; re-confirming they had no idea what I was unhappy about.
Even if you can actually reach the people who run the ASN of your ISPs, if it something big like Cox, charter, Shaw, etc, they'll be politically unable to confirm or deny anything, and won't want to talk to you. You might get a straight answer if you are in a similarly senior position at an equivalent sized ISP that has mutual settlement free peering, such as between RCN and Charter.