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Ask HN: Is it 'normal' to struggle so hard with work?

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Re: Ask HN: Is it 'normal' to struggle so hard with work?

#161
Last year, I moved from a large faceless corporation to a startup. For the twist in this story, at the startup I got exactly the way you feel. I had no motivation. Everything was easy, everyone was amazing, the benefits were great, but I was just so bored.

After 7 months, I went back to the large corp. I really enjoy what I do here and I'm now in a new role that I enjoy even more.

I guess my point is: you're bored. You don't care about your work because you don't care about it. Go find work you care about, something that excites you.

Re: Ask HN: Is it 'normal' to struggle so hard with work?

#164

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I think you are right about the mild depression. In my own post further up, I suggested Cognitive Behavioural Therapy as a possible solution (possible to do as self-study and self-practice)

> possible to do as self-study and self-practice Do you have any tips on getting started? A blog/website, what to look for?

Rhena Branch,‎ Rob Willson: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy For Dummies

https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioural-Therapy-Dummies...

Ignore the stupid series title, it's a great book.

Re: Ask HN: Is it 'normal' to struggle so hard with work?

#166
Yes, but mostly for different reasons (see below). I think the web has shortened people's attention spans, and there's the now constant distraction of social media. The other problem is that much work nowadays isn't really necessary, and many people doing it realize this, though maybe not consciously. It's very difficult to keep motivated if you don't see the point of what you're doing.

As for myself, I'm still developing my programming language (http://web.onetel.com/~hibou/fmj/FMJ.html), but as recent work has involved a major refactoring of the type system, with some bug fixes along the way, there's been very little visible progress (hence, no updates to the tutorials section of my web site) and a few things that worked before are still broken. Lack of visible progress can be somewhat demotivating.

Working continuously for several years on the same project doesn't help either. Sometimes you need a change.

My work/research is completely unpaid, so there's no financial incentive to continue. If I were to stop working on it completely, hardly anyone would even notice, and I wouldn't be any worse off financially.

As I'm working alone on this, and no one's done anything remotely similar, there's nowhere to go to for help when I'm stuck.

Online comments on it have been mostly negative.

What keeps me going is that there isn't anything important about the language that I would want to change. The language feels like "the right thing", however hard it might be to explain that to aficionados of imperative textual languages. If nobody else wanted it, I would still use it myself.

Re: Ask HN: Is it 'normal' to struggle so hard with work?

#168

Yes, but mostly for different reasons (see below). I think the web has shortened people's attention spans, and there's the now constant distraction of social media. The other problem is that much work nowadays isn't really necessary, and many people doing it realize this, though maybe not consciously. It's very difficult to keep motivated if you don't see the point of what you're doing. As for myself, I'm still devel…

There was an interesting article that surfaced a week or two ago about the learning/attention span bit: https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/i-have-forgotten-how...
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