Earlier quoted context omitted.
> which meant some clients may not honor the private status of theses posts. Does this mean they may have accidentally published a message intended as private, to the public? If so, I don’t think I can imagine a more efficient way to rob me of any confidence I ever had in Mastodon…
Socal media is orthogonal to privacy. If you want to keep something private, don't post it on a social media platform -- or at least, encrypt it out of band before you do.
Really, the only time I should expect the content I share on a social media platform to be public is if I shared it as public content.
[Note that I am talking about technical capabilities and privacy here. Of course somebody with whom I shared private information can re-post it publicly, but solving that is out of scope for a technical solution - and is also true outside of social media platforms]