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Have you ever played Diplomacy? It makes Catan look like a picnic. https://www.lifehacker.com.au/2017/11/diplomacy-the-most-evi...
I am probably the only one playing Britain in the history of the game who never made it off the damn island. The game is really hard.
However, if you play lots of games, and never get off the British Isles, you might want to look for a different hobby.
The game is meant to be hard: after all at most one in seven people can win. (Unless you are a drawmonger and consider that an acceptable outcome.)