As an artist and musician, I often encourage my friends to draw something, paint something, or make some music. The reply I hear over and over again is, "oh, no, I don't have the talent" or "oh, no, I'm awful at drawing". It's like they don't realize that what they attribute to "talent" is attainable through practice and hard work. When I point that out and encourage them to just try, that it might be fun, they make…
> I've come to understand that what all their excuses amount to is that they're just not interested in creating. I don't think this is true. If they were uninterested, they would simply say so, rather than making a series of excuses. What seems more likely to me is that they are (on a deep level) scared of creating. Creativity of any sort requires you to project your personality and be vulnerable in a way that people…
I think they make those excuses because they don't want to cause offense by saying they aren't interested in what I'm interested in (and even consider to be part of my identity).
I do agree that fear could motivate their aversion, though. But if the fear is there, I don't think it's usually rises to their consciousness or at least is something they could readily admit -- as if it was, they could simply say they're afraid, couldn't they?