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> How, when given the evidence of practically infinite planets out there [...] can we even consider the possibility that this is the only planet with life? Human minds aren't good with very large numbers. What seems "practically infinite" to us - isn't, really. The number of all planets in the universe is said to be in the ballpark of 10^24. Meaning (obviously) if you keep on dividing it by 10, in just 24 steps you g…
We don't know all the factors under which life can exist. Even the lifeforms that we do know of, occupy a very broad spectrum in all metrics, existing at all sorts of extremes. We even have evidence of life we have never seen, will never encounter, and may never even have conceived as being possible to exist without that evidence: the enormous dinosaurs.
But all lifeforms we know evolved from one common ancestor, it's one tree of life. As far as we know life evolved here only once.
So we know that once life happens it can become completely ubiquitous, but it doesn't say anything about that crucial first step.