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Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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Well, I do feel much more saucy when I speak Spanish ;D

I tend to become much nicer when I switch over to Spanish, mostly because I usually speak it in customer service situations. Spanish is my language to help people. That and I always love the look I get when the pasty Russian girl starts sounding like a Columbian.

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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I wish people would make themselves familiar with examples before citing them as evidence of vague general claims: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liebeck_v._McDonalds_Restaurant...

Have a TL;DR? Am I supposed to red a 1000 lines Wikipedia article before I comment on anything?

In general that is probably a sound practice :) At the very least one gets informed

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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Have a TL;DR? Am I supposed to red a 1000 lines Wikipedia article before I comment on anything?

In general that is probably a sound practice :) At the very least one gets informed

Unfortunately, Wikipedia now probably contains more information than a single person can digest in their lifetime.

My life was not profoundly enriched by reading about the coffee case, either.

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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I'm definitely much more direct and polite in French. I'd prefer to calculate what I'm about to say a little longer than misspeak the local tongue, so I end up appearing much more tight-lipped as a result.

My wife, on the other hand, has spent a lot more time in France than I have, and apparently learned from the school across the tracks--she's much more apt to stutter and fumble with vocabulary (she's got an anecdote about learning the difference between cravat and crevette), but she's much more talkative and seems to get more done with her style.

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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And Afrikaans: jy (familiar), u (ever so formal), but u is (or seems to be) falling out of common use.

And in Turkish. "Sen" ve "Siz".

And Spanish, "Tu" vs "Usted" vs "Vos"

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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Same in Spanish ('usted' and 'tu', respectively).

The problem with the German version is that "Sie" also means "she" and "they". Usted at least does not mean "she." So, are you talking about your sister… or are you talking to your superior? (My 2nd most hated thing about German.)

Italian also has "Lei" which means both she and you (in the formal sense).

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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Same in Spanish ('usted' and 'tu', respectively).

And in most Indian languages.

Hindi has three - tu, tum and aap. I explained some of this on my Hindi lessons site - http://hindipedia.com/hindi-video-lesson-04-pronouns.

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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I speak 2 languages fluently and a few others adequately. I definitely think my behavior is a little different when speaking Spanish versus English, but I don't think there are any deep-seated psycholinguistic reasons for this - it's more because of cultural differences. An example: in Colombia, when demonstrating the height of a child, you hold your hand vertically, while when talking about the height of an animal,…

"English, a more unemotional and efficient language than Spanish"

That claim is because it is usually perceived that lots of words and expressions in English are shorter than their Spanish counterparts.

car vs carro

dog vs perro

lol vs que risa jajajajaja

I'm really interested in an expert explanation of why this is complete bullshit.

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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And French, "tu" (familiar singular) and "vous" (formal singular, or plural). English used to have "thou", but of course that's long since extinct.

Trivia, "thou" was actually the informal pronoun. On the other hand in Mexican Spanish, "usted" is fading away. It's curious how different cultures get rid of different options.

"Usted" is alive and well in Argentinian Spanish. Divided by a common language indeed...

Re: Do you have a different personality when you speak a different language?

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Short version: the woman suffered third degree burns over 6% of her body (1% = the size of a handprint) including her crotch, and lesser burns over 16%. She required emergency medical attention, expensive skin grafts, etc. This was not just someone spilling a bit of coffee on their arm and flinching in pain, but instead was a horrific life-threatening injury (I’m somewhat reminded of Rush Limbaugh suggesting that wat…

So is 170° too hot for coffee? I still don't quite get it. is that Fahrenheit, or Celsius (the latter probably physically impossible, but still)? What temperature is coffee now (at McD and at Starbucks?)? Feeling sorry for someone doesn't appear to be beneficial to people's judgement.

Fahrenheit. Yes, it is too hot; home-brewed coffee is ~140 degrees. McDonalds was warned multiple times, at least once by a burn victims' society, that their coffee was dangerously hot prior to this case but chose to do nothing about it. I don't know the exact temperatures that McDonalds & Starbucks currently serve their coffee at, but that specific McDonalds franchise lowered the temp by ~10 degrees afterwards, and though I've never measured the temperature of my Starbucks coffee (from multiple franchises), it's never been much hotter than the drip coffee I make at home.
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