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It's easy to solve that problem, work from home. I work 10-12 hours most days but I see my daughter all the time because I work from home and we get to eat three meals together and play after dinner.
I do the kitchen-table-coding-marathon as well, but how do you get any consulting work if the only time you're available is 8pm-2am? Rentacoder?
People worry about moonlighting when you have a full-time job but if you are running a startup they usually understand you can make time for them when you need it.