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Office Parties Feel the Chill

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Re: Office Parties Feel the Chill

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Office parties are a great form of getting to know each other for employees in multi site companies. It is a way of keeping in touch.

Also, knowing the faces behind the names in Slack gives you some common grounds for verbal communication.

For me office parties are almost an vital part of cooperation.

Re: Office Parties Feel the Chill

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Maybe it's just my inner-millenial but I really dislike office Christmas parties. This year my company rented out a large theatre with a buffet of goose and free beer/cocktails/wine all evening. It started at 6pm and most of the attendees were gone by 10pm, and we are a young company with many in their 20s. I feel like it was really a party for a few outgoing people and those in HR. A Christmas bonus would have been…

As party to one of the organizers, the dollars per head runs slightly above a wedding. Thus expect $120/plate/head. Not a great bonus. Add ons that were cut as the budget was cut; Open Bar: (paid at end, but think cocktail rates $11-$20 per drink), "white glove hors d'oeuvre" $13/person.

Yeah, well, having to attend a party with mediocre food and no drinks isn’t such a great bonus either. The check would at least make the situation explicit.

Re: Office Parties Feel the Chill

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FWIW, they probably spent more than 30/person on just food and drink, but regardless I agree anything under a couple hundred dollars wouldn't feel genuine.

Thanks, I'm trying to institutionalize this and was wondering what would be a good Christmas bonus. 250$ was my ballpark.

Don't forget that a bonus (or a gift above a certain monetary value) is a taxable benefit to workers while an office party is not.

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Thanks, I'm trying to institutionalize this and was wondering what would be a good Christmas bonus. 250$ was my ballpark.

Probably depends on your industry and implementation. I'm new to the workforce so I don't have a lot of experience with it, but I've seen some comments on reddit over the years with people getting piddly little bonuses (tens of dollars) and having management tell them they should be happy they got anything. The workers would have preferred getting nothing and it was a morale killer. I don't know what good levels are.…

The major telco I work for (starts with a B in Canada), people in my group complained when they got a $300 raise and said they would rather not have got it.. so they cut the raises for the 3 years straight due to this "comment". Funny thing, that person would be ahead by ~1k a year at the base salary. Fortunately I am part of a different compensation package. I would always take any money, that 300 is ~180ish after tax, enough for 2 months of parking..

Re: Office Parties Feel the Chill

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Thanks, I'm trying to institutionalize this and was wondering what would be a good Christmas bonus. 250$ was my ballpark.

Probably depends on your industry and implementation. I'm new to the workforce so I don't have a lot of experience with it, but I've seen some comments on reddit over the years with people getting piddly little bonuses (tens of dollars) and having management tell them they should be happy they got anything. The workers would have preferred getting nothing and it was a morale killer. I don't know what good levels are.…

Maybe we can all be so lucky and get a jelly of the month club.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QNVe9Hbhwc

Re: Office Parties Feel the Chill

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Probably depends on your industry and implementation. I'm new to the workforce so I don't have a lot of experience with it, but I've seen some comments on reddit over the years with people getting piddly little bonuses (tens of dollars) and having management tell them they should be happy they got anything. The workers would have preferred getting nothing and it was a morale killer. I don't know what good levels are.…

The major telco I work for (starts with a B in Canada), people in my group complained when they got a $300 raise and said they would rather not have got it.. so they cut the raises for the 3 years straight due to this "comment". Funny thing, that person would be ahead by ~1k a year at the base salary. Fortunately I am part of a different compensation package. I would always take any money, that 300 is ~180ish after t…

Sounds like "the company to escape from if at all possible". Not only disrespecting the workers but also silencing complaints by force.

Re: Office Parties Feel the Chill

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Maybe it's just my inner-millenial but I really dislike office Christmas parties. This year my company rented out a large theatre with a buffet of goose and free beer/cocktails/wine all evening. It started at 6pm and most of the attendees were gone by 10pm, and we are a young company with many in their 20s. I feel like it was really a party for a few outgoing people and those in HR. A Christmas bonus would have been…

We have terrific parties at Relativity. Venues like Union Station, Museum of Natural History, Museum of Science and Industry. The whole place is rented, and food is provided, drinks as well, usually dance music. Loud dance music.

And bonuses are after the first of the year and based on company and individual performance.

Usually, there is also an after-party, and on some occasions, an after-after party.

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Did you call him up on it? You don't have to be aggressive/self-righteous about it to let someone know what they are saying is not ok.

He/she mentioned offensive behavior from both male and female colleagues. Why not call out both?

You're right I should have.

The reason I mentioned the Male one, was the recency in the story, and probably a little bias on the topic.

My bad :(.

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

The major telco I work for (starts with a B in Canada), people in my group complained when they got a $300 raise and said they would rather not have got it.. so they cut the raises for the 3 years straight due to this "comment". Funny thing, that person would be ahead by ~1k a year at the base salary. Fortunately I am part of a different compensation package. I would always take any money, that 300 is ~180ish after t…

Sounds like "the company to escape from if at all possible". Not only disrespecting the workers but also silencing complaints by force.

I agree 100%
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