Since 3 out of 9 are about sexual harassment and one is about politics, I was hoping to get your thoughts. These days, people feel increasingly under fire. We have to watch what we say, what we do, who we offend, what our political affiliations are, and whether we are crossing any lines. A little anecdote: I was hacking away on a couch in a mall, and a couple of techies came up to me doing a user study. They asked me…
Your felt your idea wasn't taken seriously in a discussion? You felt you unintentionally became defensive and awkward in some social situations? Congratulations, you just experienced some of the most universal feelings being a woman in our current society. This talk about "can't I flirt anymore?" and similar is just sad. Boohoo, of course you can flirt, but being socially awkward/stupid while doing it is what you can…
People sometimes assume that that requirement is waived for them because what they're saying is so legitimate, but these two things are orthogonal, because taking personal shots at others is destructive to the container which is in all our interests to maintain. And it's fragile. Therefore, please don't post like this to Hacker News.