Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
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Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#22Earlier quoted context omitted.
Sorry for not being clear enough. No, services are indeed an economic activity. Just that I don't see service reliant economies as sustainable in the long term. They are all in debt, and always were working into debt, unlike traditional industrial societies, which have better track record. And along those lines, it is unfair to complain about high degree of welfare dependency: not everyone can work in the City, and t…
I'm afraid I don't see where you have successfully linked service-reliant economies with debt. There may be a correlation - I haven't looked at the data, but is A a cause of B?
If you know of a good one, please point me to it. I would like to be proven wrong here, and educate myself.
Service economy sounds wrong superficially, and doesn't have clear, satisfactory explanation when you dig into details either. I feel the major reason why it is cited as future is that it's the way society drifts to at the moment. That, coupled with their actual underperformance, is what pushes me to this, apparently unpopular, conclusion.
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#23This belief in fairness can be exploited by sociopaths and those who end up in power. Of course, one can argue they ended up in a position of power because they exploited others' "fairness" expectation.
This probably has implications for how crime and punishment is treated by different cultures. The strong belief in a universal justice often gets used by the penal system to punish criminals in proportion to how much "retribution" the victim (or their family) demands. This is usually veiled in a some kind of a "the victim's family needs closure" type argument.
At the same time, I think, this revenge based justice is a result (and a perversion) of a universal religious justice that many members of the society have (had?). The idea that life is fair even beyond life, and afterlife is a place where retribution and rewards are dealt with.
It is interesting how for such a Christian nation, America has such a harsh penal system -- one would expect all those Christians to just let the criminals be punished in the afterlife.
EDIT: some syntax errors, clarity
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#24I think it is just wrong to assume that social security exists because people are so good in their hearts and like being taken advantage of. Probably many (the majority) thinks so, but in reality, it is simply a form of insurance. Also, I pay up to keep the beggars and robbers off the street. That is a purely selfish reason - I think solid political systems should be based on selfishness.
"I think solid political systems should be based on selfishness." This can't work, because there's no end in selfishness. If you're more selfish than others, than you will have an advantage, as long the others are a bit less selfish. At the end selfishness harms itself.
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#25Also related: Experimental Economist Bart Wilson on the Meaning of "Fair" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HaFpB7z5y3Y
Briefly messing about with Google Translate seems to bear this out - for many of the other languages I checked, Google suggested one word meaning 'just' and another meaning 'equitable'.
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#26America has better http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_mobility
But the article states at the bottom that "the USA fairs very poorly when compared to European countries". And the Guardian showed the USA does worse than most OECD economies: http://www.guardian.co.uk/business/2010/mar/10/oecd-uk-worst...
We seem to (well, at least I seem to) instinctively dislike the child of privilege, but at the same time I'm very interested in passing on whatever success I manage to have in life to my descendants, and systems and societies that make it more difficult for me to do so strike me as completely unfair.
There's a bit of a contradiction here.
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#27Earlier quoted context omitted.
But the article states at the bottom that "the USA fairs very poorly when compared to European countries". And the Guardian showed the USA does worse than most OECD economies: http://www.guardian.co.uk/business/2010/mar/10/oecd-uk-worst...
Isn't it interesting that 'worse' and 'very poorly' imply a negative value judgement? We seem to (well, at least I seem to) instinctively dislike the child of privilege, but at the same time I'm very interested in passing on whatever success I manage to have in life to my descendants, and systems and societies that make it more difficult for me to do so strike me as completely unfair. There's a bit of a contradiction…
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#28I remember the first time I worked out that life's not fair. There's no over-arching justice to ensure that just because someone beats be at one thing they won't beat me at another. Nature as a whole has no sense of fair play. The best you can do is get on with life. Having said that, if you treat people well you often find that their sense of fair play gives you a safety net. But always remember: "Life is pain, high…
"Fair" is "if you don't work you don't eat" but that isn't what people actually want...
Just a thought, not an opinion.
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#29Earlier quoted context omitted.
"Fair" is "if you don't work you don't eat" but that isn't what people actually want...
Is that "fair"?, or is that what those who worked all their lives want everyone to believe in order to justify themselves having worked all their lives? Just a thought, not an opinion.
Re: Life's unfair? Do something Or just get used to it.
#30I remember the first time I worked out that life's not fair. There's no over-arching justice to ensure that just because someone beats be at one thing they won't beat me at another. Nature as a whole has no sense of fair play. The best you can do is get on with life. Having said that, if you treat people well you often find that their sense of fair play gives you a safety net. But always remember: "Life is pain, high…
I have always said “life is not fair” but recently have come to believe and accept it.
A 36 year old friend was an innocent victim of an automobile accident seven weeks ago. He is still unable to communicate and move. A respectable individual with a wife and three young girls.
Another "young" (42) neighbor of mine, father with three kids. Cancer came back of out remission and a recent bone marrow transplant failed.
>The best you can do is get on with life. Agreed. Part of being born is dying. We need to accept our fate, make the best of it and move on. I now have a much deeper appreciation of my good health (and most of my family members around me). I don’t take it for granted any more.