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The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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How much time have you spent in Japan or among Japanese people?

Iirc he lives in Japan. At least part of his position is true though -- the education system really doesn't cultivate critical thinking or original thought (other than the elite prep schools which are great at fostering individuality).

> he lives in Japan.

And of course, the only person in this thread who knows what they’re talking about gets downvoted to oblivion.

Never change, HN.

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post #86

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I only watched the first season, but wasn't it the reverse of the suggestion?

The later seasons explained things a bit more if I remember correctly. There was more to it than what was in the first season.

The second season also went completely off the rails with the mind reprogramming noise that can be broadcast over the radio or a phone line. They also glossed over the whole "Your body will have a police record thicker than the backup dancers in a rap video when we put your mind back in it, and also you will be wanted for treason." problem. Luckily they collapsed society before that problem came up.

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post #87

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You should check how Dollhouse ends then :) .

Suddenly and without resolution? :)

I thought they destroyed society by the end? All of the nuanced ethical considerations replaced by straight up supervillainy with mind reprogramming noise being broadcast over the radio to everybody in the world and turning them into crazed murderers.

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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Went into reading this article expecting it to be a one-off, rental boyfriend type deal (that kind of trope is used very frequently in movies/tv shows/manga there), but this way way deeper than I expected. I'm pretty mind blown at how far they are taking this fake/real replacements. Pretty close to some dystopian scifi actually. >If the client never reveals the truth, I must continue the role indefinitely. If the dau…

It's a remarkable piece. But plenty of 'real' relationships are maintained partly by paying for them, too - think of the friend who always picks up the tab, the boyfriend or suitor who pays for dinner and buys gifts for his lover. A Marxian could even claim that traditional families aren't so different... The temporary nature and upfront pricetag though are distinctive.

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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Can someone confirm that this is real? It reads like (dismal) satire.

It's fake IMO. The story is probably real but the implication that this is a crazy Japanese thing or that it is common is fake, just like most stereotypes about Japan. Want to see cosplayers? There's way more in the west than Japan. Want to see people dying their hair colors like anime characters? That's a western thing, not a Japanese thing. The article is about a single company not nationwide trend. Let me also add…

Not really. You have westerners taking advantage of the "fake " as well.

see:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/mar/05/everyth...

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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post #33

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Having been living in Japan for 4 years, i doubt this is fake. Loneliness is huge problems in Japan, you just can't become friends with stranger

Would a 1.9m blond bloke find a role or would be considered too foreign? Few gigs would help with travel budget.

Very possibly the opposite! Companies will hire westerners to pose (like, literally stand and smile and nothing else) as C-level execs because having foreign execs correlates with a successful international business and thus looks good to potential partners and the like.

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Iirc he lives in Japan. At least part of his position is true though -- the education system really doesn't cultivate critical thinking or original thought (other than the elite prep schools which are great at fostering individuality).

> he lives in Japan. And of course, the only person in this thread who knows what they’re talking about gets downvoted to oblivion. Never change, HN.

I didn't downvote ekianjo (my question was genuine), but I do think if one is going to tar an entire 127M country as mostly devoid of individual thinking, it's reasonable to expect them to provide some reason for doing so. Extraordinary claims and all that.

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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Trophy wife relationship might be not so different.

We already have commercial close day to day relationships like daycare, teachers, taking care of elderly. Then we have therapists and prostitution. Many lonely people have only workplace friendships that are more artificial than the importance they have in the life of lonely people.

But these are all fundamentally honest relationships with defined roles in the society. If a mother wants tho hire father figure for her child, I think the relationship should be honest towards the child and not based on lie. "Hired uncle" would be honest.

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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A danish director made a film on the topic: he follows a Rent-A-Friend business boss who hides what he is doing for a living to his own family Imdb: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3242460/

A greek director also made a movie based a very similar idea http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1859446/?ref_=nv_sr_1

Also check out his newer movies like The Lobster... really good movies!

Re: The Booming Japanese Rent-A-Friend Business

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post #35

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It's not lie if everybody accepts and supports it, merely a convention. There's father-by-birth, and then father-by-adoption, and then father-by-convention.

Sorry, but it's just terrible. The mother is paying $200/month for a service that could disappear at any moment. The daughter thinks the rental is her real father. That's highly likely to unravel sometime in her life time. Certainly at his funeral...he is using a fake name and personna.

Presumably if her mom is about to run out of money, she pays for a final session where the dad gets hit by a car and has a funeral, right?
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