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I Quit Facebook

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Re: I Quit Facebook

#41
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Virtue signaling heavily laden with Trump derangement syndrome. Thinks Twitter failing to discipline President Trump because he violated the don't-threaten-people policy over North Korean missile launches is a grave double standard. Not a quality article.

Trump derangement syndrome. I'm keen to understand what you mean by this, in context.

The idea that having yet another idiot/liar/narcissus as president (as has been done many times in the past) is about to bring the end of the world.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#42
post #14

Did this 5 years ago and never looked back. The fact that people write about it is probably showing how serious Facebook has become to them. Pretty sad and frivolous if your think about it. My other social media (Twitter, Instagram) have notifications turned off, and are silently — and non instrusively — waiting for me when I decide to glance at them (usually once every 2-3 days). You end up forgetting about them and…

> I believe we’ll look back in 10 years and realize that this generation was ridiculously over attached to [human connections] Fixed that for you.

Yeah, because "human connections" can only be achieved on a web platform, with people you merely chat with on a casual BS basis for casual BS topics, and consider "friends" besides seldom meeting or having much in common with most of them.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#43
I can't help but feel that if Facebook has such a huge negative influence on your life, the problem isn't Facebook but something deeper you need to resolve in yourself. If you're getting hopelessly addicted to Facebook or letting it make you feel bad, you're probably just going to replace it with something else until you fix the reason you let it impact you that way.

I use Facebook to keep up with friends and arrange events. It's a useful communication tool and I don't get caught up in it any more than that.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#44
I just decreased my Facebook use to minimal. Won't remove it because of possible FB identity theft.

You can do more and more with Facebook Account it's just just scary to lose control over my profile.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#45
post #26

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> I believe we’ll look back in 10 years and realize that this generation was ridiculously over attached to [human connections] Fixed that for you.

Haha, well not too sure. For one, Facebook isn’t a human connection, it’s really not. You’re not really friends with someone you haven’t spoken to in 5 years. On the other hand, we’ve been attached to human connections since the begging of civilization. Not sold that would end in 10 years time.

Before Facebook, there was an entire genre of "friends reunited" stories, where people had lost contact with someone they used to be close to and recovered it after decades. That was back in the old pre-connection days where you could just lose someone's contact details, or they could move and if they didn't update you (or you were both moving) that was it forever.

Now things are very different. You never have to wonder what's happening to those people you knew at school, or wait for the reunion.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#46
post #5

"A facebook account was closed." Headline suggested to me someone resigning from the company. The latter is more interesting. Many people have closed their facebook accounts, it's not a big deal, you just announce you're going to do it, get whatever contact details you don't have from connections then do it. Others never opened one. Life is fine without facebook, if you feel you want to close your account, do it. Foo…

> Many people have throwed away their cigarette packs, it's not a big deal, you just announce you're going to do it, get that one last cig with a friend then do it. Others never started to smoke. Life is fine without smoking, if you feel you want to stop smoking, do it. Footage at 11.

> Many people have stopped gambling, it's not a big deal, you just announce you're going to do it, get whatever money's left on the table then do it. Others never started gambling. Life is fine without gambling, if you feel you want to get out of gambling, do it. Footage at 11.

I am always shockingly impressed at the lack of empathy and open-mindedness some people or group thereof are reliably able to show, here failing to recognise that this mind trick minefield can have devastating effects and act at the very least as a dramatic catalyst in loss-of-balance situations. The underlying, untold, insulting judgement is basically "damn this guy is weak/an attention seeking whore".

I found the article articulated quite well the issues he faced, his reasons (which extend beyond Facebook's carefully engineered attention seeking madness) and both of his strategy and tactics to get out of the hole he found himself in (which extend beyond Facebook and social networks). Writing about one's problems help a lot in internally processing them. Making a public statement helps in committing oneself to improvement, and help others in a similar predicament to relate and hopefully even proceed to action.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#47
post #27

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Just from witnessing what people are looking at on their smartphones (in Spain), couple of years ago it was all facebook now it's all whatsapp - even older age groups (60+). Only people I know ever mentioning facebook are (as mentioned in the other reply) middle-aged upwards.

Doesn't Facebook own whatsapp? They're not leaving Facebook, just switching from one Facebook property to another.

You are correct but if the trend is moving from a heavily monetised property to one that isn't....?

Re: I Quit Facebook

#48
post #34

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Technically it is, but it is much more than that in reality. All my friends use Facebook to create parties and announce sudden gatherings. I don't use facebook to much more than to know when these things occur so I can participate but if I were to deactivate my account it would mean that I would probably miss out on some of these gatherings. I'd rather just keep my account and post as little as possible in order to j…

Are people, who can't be bothered to send you an SMS, email or give a call to invite you into a party, actually, your friends?

Are people that can't be bothered to mail you a letter really your friend? Facebook is an efficient form of communication that the vast majority of people use. I'd expect close friends to go out of their way to contact me but you have to accept that by not using Facebook you're going to miss out on things and creating an inconvenience for people. SMS and email aren't as efficient for arranging group events.

Re: I Quit Facebook

#49
I hear a lot about facebook but I almost never run into it though I feel like I am literally living inside internet. It amazes me how something I can literally not see any presence can have presumably such huge importance in the cyberworld. Google, I get it, twitter, I get it, facebook... nope. Looks like big inflated wind to me (or quite crafty salespersons).

Re: I Quit Facebook

#50

I'm honestly a little amazed at all the thought put in to quitting Facebook. It seems like such a big deal for people. I think it's very sad that we've gotten to this point. It's just a Web site.

Everybody use facebook. It's not just a website, facebook has become the norm.
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