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I'm not aware of any entirely decentralised system which would allow two computers which are behind NAT to find and then talk to each other. Or any obvious design which would work there. then you're clearly not the person we should be asking to build this kind of thing are you? :-) my proposal actually solves two important problems with peer-to-peer systems, and I barely have to write any new code to make it work! th…
Assume I'm at my computer with i2p installed. How do I find your computer? (Serious question - I've not used it myself, and I'm intrigued at the process.)
endpoints are identified by their public key hash. each endpoint maintains a set of anonymized routes. this routing information is stored in a Distributed Hash Table (DHT). if you want to connect to another endpoint, you lookup the route for the public key hash, build an outbound route, and you're good.
more concretely, an ipfs transfer would work by using public key hashes in place of IP addresses to identify peers and a known set of endpoint keys for bootstrapping.