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I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

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Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

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It seems like a major personality crisis for me. Any crisis makes you feel bad and personality crisis all the more so. But there is a bright side, personality crisis is a chance to grow above your head. I agree with existential psychology on it.

I believe that you can help youself by learning some bits of development and existential psychology. Development psychology describes some common kinds of personality crises, and it helps to understand what going on when dealing with concrete life story. Existential psychology can give advice what to do.

So my advice is don't start making abrupt changes in your life right now. I think that your last failures can make anyone to feel depressed and to lose faith in himself. You can stop trying to find your place in tech, but it not be good to do it just because you feel depressed.

Give youself some time to learn youself, at least half a year. Read some books or talk with psychologist -- some kind of existential psychologist will do, I believe. As for books, I personally greatly like Kegan.[1]

If you see that "kicked in three month" is a pattern, and you don't understand what precisely causes it, I believe that it needs some research. It is hard to do such a research without external help, it can take years of struggling to understand is cause external or internal, if it is some of your psychological traits causes it or something else. You need someone with whom you will be able to discuss this topic honestly. Again psychologist is one of the options. The others is some close relative, it is better if she thoughtful person and about thirty or older.

There are two opposite possibilities for you, either take sharp turns on your life path, or try to adapt. I assure you that in either way this is not the last time when you face such a choice in your life. So right now the most important goal is to learn how to deal with it. How to make conscious decision that will lead you to success and happy life. It is impossible to master this, but nevertheless it becomes easier with practice.

[1] https://vividness.live/2015/10/12/developing-ethical-social-...

Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

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>the more I have a realization that a lot of the corporate speak they’re telling us at these companies is for the company’s interest.

Are you joking? Who's interest would it be in? Do you think the world revolves around you?

>in reality they’re just using me for money

Not to sound pedantic, but... why do you think they pay you?

>But I’m just really good at this

Citation needed. You said you get fired every 3 months. If they don't hire you back, you're not "really good".

Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

#5

>the more I have a realization that a lot of the corporate speak they’re telling us at these companies is for the company’s interest. Are you joking? Who's interest would it be in? Do you think the world revolves around you? >in reality they’re just using me for money Not to sound pedantic, but... why do you think they pay you? >But I’m just really good at this Citation needed. You said you get fired every 3 months.…

> I’ve been working and adulting for years

Also, lol, you are in your teens (17-19) and are tired of "adulting". Let me laugh a little more

Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

#6

>the more I have a realization that a lot of the corporate speak they’re telling us at these companies is for the company’s interest. Are you joking? Who's interest would it be in? Do you think the world revolves around you? >in reality they’re just using me for money Not to sound pedantic, but... why do you think they pay you? >But I’m just really good at this Citation needed. You said you get fired every 3 months.…

> I’ve been working and adulting for years Also, lol, you are in your teens (17-19) and are tired of "adulting". Let me laugh a little more

It is no point to laugh. It is much more difficult to be adult if you are not used to it.

Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

#7
If that's your definition of 'burnt out', join the club of just about everyone with a job ever. Although most won't admit it. Working for other people does suck and yes it is inherently unfair. Despite all of the progress we've made, there are still some fundamental aspects of the average human condition that are not so great.

At least it's better than it used to be. Used to be quite common for people to work for zero dollars or very close to zero. In other words outright slavery.

But yes, it absolutely is a goal for most businesses to just use their employees to make as much money as possible, while the owners take in as much cash as possible for as little work as possible. That it the reality and it is quite unfair.

It is confusing as a young person when everyone accepts this situation and won't complain about it. But you will learn, complaining about a common problem will often just make you a target. Even if it's a common problem that other people could use help with. Get with the program -- pretend you are a happy little worker and shut up.

The solution is to get yourself into the ownership class, either by actually building a business or some social manipulation (easiest is to convince someone who likes you to give you money to invest in your idea). Then it is your job to pay as little as possible and get the most out of your employees so that your friends can get the most out of their investment.

Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

#8
This thread was a truly depressing read. Someone is fed up with the bullshit and has the courage to speak their mind, and the best you can manage is throwing stones to protect your own miserable bubbles. Here's some constructive advice: Find something you love to do, then give it your best against any odds and ignore the stones that will inevitably be thrown; you will have to do it sooner or later anyway, or die regretting a wasted life. And forgive them, for they know not who they are.

Re: I'm young and I'm already burnt out on tech work. Could I get some life advice?

#9

>the more I have a realization that a lot of the corporate speak they’re telling us at these companies is for the company’s interest. Are you joking? Who's interest would it be in? Do you think the world revolves around you? >in reality they’re just using me for money Not to sound pedantic, but... why do you think they pay you? >But I’m just really good at this Citation needed. You said you get fired every 3 months.…

Not fired every three months, she/he's just talking about doing internships
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