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People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

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Re: People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

#11
I must have been an early bloomer. :)

I've always loved the technical parts of my job (and still do), but since day 1 of my career I've gotten nothing but scheming and toxicity when dealing with my superiors and my various counterparts.

I'm not entirely sure if I've simply been unlucky, or if the majority of workplaces really are this high strung. The existence of Dilbert suggests the latter.

Re: People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

#12

I believe the tech sector is extremely prone to this: If you cannot climb out of a technical role, over time, you realize just how clueless most people are, especially those who imagine themselves of being "in control". Not just a bit uninformed, no: absolutely positively clueless[1]. If you go the management route, you often give up, what got you started with all this is the first place: curiosity and exploration, c…

Are you referring the Gervais principle?: https://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/

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#13

I started to notice this in my late 20s. It felt kind of like a "the emperor has no clothes" moment when I was working at a tech startup that pushed long hours/weekend work in order to fulfill some "mission" and "greater purpose" and that I should feel a part of this for the greater good. It kind of hit me that this was mostly just a fantastic way to extract more work out of young, impressionable 20somethings who did…

Thanks for this story. I believe a lot of people would love to work on some greater good. I, for one, would love to work for a aggressive non-profit, if there is such a thing. Software and automation is the way to the future - why let just a few profit from it?

Re: People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

#14

I must have been an early bloomer. :) I've always loved the technical parts of my job (and still do), but since day 1 of my career I've gotten nothing but scheming and toxicity when dealing with my superiors and my various counterparts. I'm not entirely sure if I've simply been unlucky, or if the majority of workplaces really are this high strung. The existence of Dilbert suggests the latter.

FWIW I think it's the former.

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post #12

I believe the tech sector is extremely prone to this: If you cannot climb out of a technical role, over time, you realize just how clueless most people are, especially those who imagine themselves of being "in control". Not just a bit uninformed, no: absolutely positively clueless[1]. If you go the management route, you often give up, what got you started with all this is the first place: curiosity and exploration, c…

Are you referring the Gervais principle?: https://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/

I'm sure I read this long ago but wasn't thinking about it. But it seems very relevant, unfortunately.

Re: People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

#18

I started to notice this in my late 20s. It felt kind of like a "the emperor has no clothes" moment when I was working at a tech startup that pushed long hours/weekend work in order to fulfill some "mission" and "greater purpose" and that I should feel a part of this for the greater good. It kind of hit me that this was mostly just a fantastic way to extract more work out of young, impressionable 20somethings who did…

Read up on Netflix, it's a very Kool-Aid-free culture.

Re: People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

#19

I believe the tech sector is extremely prone to this: If you cannot climb out of a technical role, over time, you realize just how clueless most people are, especially those who imagine themselves of being "in control". Not just a bit uninformed, no: absolutely positively clueless[1]. If you go the management route, you often give up, what got you started with all this is the first place: curiosity and exploration, c…

Only bad managers forego creativity and progress. Don't blame the role for the mediocrity of some people who play it.

Strangely, people don't hold the same view of conductors, even if they don't play the instruments. Or directors, even though they don't do the acting. Or football coaches, even if they aren't the playing game.

Hell, there's management simulator games out there that people love.

But software management? Well that must be exactly like Office Space.

Consider the following: maybe some management sucks and gets away with it because pop culture has taught us to expect it to.

Re: People Start Hating Their Jobs at Age 35

#20

I started to notice this in my late 20s. It felt kind of like a "the emperor has no clothes" moment when I was working at a tech startup that pushed long hours/weekend work in order to fulfill some "mission" and "greater purpose" and that I should feel a part of this for the greater good. It kind of hit me that this was mostly just a fantastic way to extract more work out of young, impressionable 20somethings who did…

There are recruitment firms who can find you these transational contracts. They're full time generally and pay well.
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