Earlier quoted context omitted.
How many people here were alive "when the status quo potentially benefited you and excluded others not on their merit but race and gender?" Preferences (quotas, lower standards, financial incentives, etc) for women and minorities in hiring and admissions have existed for a long time.
I'm still pretty young yet I've experienced benefits solely from my gender. My sister is smarter than me and better at math and physics than me. I was invited by my grade school to go to robotics camps over the summer, she wasn't. I was given special permission to take computer science courses not offered by our highschool, she wasn't. I was encouraged to to go into engineering by our guidance Councillor, she wasn't.…
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/storyline/wp/2014/12/11/...
And young women earn more than young men, on average.
http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274...
I'm sorry about what happened to your sister, but that's not the norm.