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How to Disagree

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Re: How to Disagree

#141

It's the other way around. Moving up the DH-hierarchy doesn't make people less mean. It's just that less mean people have a tendency to move up the DH-hierarchy. This is based on my personal experience. Since you're the one making the original statement without supporting evidence, I feel that the burden of finding evidence should be on you, that's why this isn't a DH3-statement, but DH7. ;) Thanks for the read.

"It's just that less mean people have a tendency to move up the DH-hierarchy." How did you intend for that to be parsed, (fewer (mean people)) or ((less mean) people)?

((less mean) people)

Re: How to Disagree

#142
On a related note, I saw an old interview with William F Buckley about his show Firing Line. He mentioned that he had a chapter in an earlier book that described various debate tactics used by his guests. He described a few in the interview that I immediately recognized in online comments, too. Sadly, I don't know which book has this chapter.

Re: How to Disagree

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How do you account for disagreeing, not with someone's conclusions, but with the means that they used to arrive at them?

I usually think it in vain to post a comment on something that I fundamentally disagree with, because I rarely find an author with a strong point of view who has not already found a choir to preach to, so that speaking up would be futile—I would be drowned out, or villanized.

The only kinds of comments which seem to me to be worth making are those in which: You agree, and offer some novel corroboration; You agree with the conclusion, but disagree with the means; Or you raise a question, without treating of the conclusion at all.

The obvious possibility would be to reproduce the entire hierarchy, but to a different purpose.

DH0: "Stop agreeing with me, you're making me look bad." DH1: "You should let someone else make that argument." DH2: "That (arrogant,presumptuous,juvenile) tone won't go over well." DH3: "You're going to offend people who believe X." DH4: "I heard an argument Y against this," or "How do you solve problem Y"? DH5: "Have you considered solution Z' to problem Z?" DH6: "You're formulating your own belief incorrectly."

But I don't think that your bounds hold here. DH0 is still maximally unhelpful, but DH6 may be just as bad. DH1 may be the wisest advice that you can receive. DH3 is less helpful than DH2 (better to be asked to express your beliefs more politely, than to be asked to conceal them). And DH4 is more polite than DH5 (better to solicit the author's opinion on a difficulty, than to obtrude your own).

Re: How to Disagree

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The authors are idiots. Of course they would write something like this, they probably make their living off selling these sorts of pie-in-the-sky ideals to people. The whole tone of this article is pretentious and insulting. Personal attacks are perfectly valid forms of argument and communication. If you look at these things in terms of effectiveness, they are usually more practical approaches that yield results, especially in the political realm. One thing they write is:

'If you can't find an actual quote to disagree with, you may be arguing with a straw man.'

That isn't true. Using analog-situation arguments and reductions to absurdity to point out the fallacies of a point is a long-used, valid practice. The central point of their writing seems to be that addressing substance using reason is the most effective way of arguing. They write:

"The force of a refutation depends on what you refute. The most powerful form of disagreement is to refute someone's central point."

and point out that refutation is the strongest from of argument against some other point, Well, "strongest" is a subjective evaluation and I would like to point out that in the history of argument and in particular political discourse, usually it is the loudest, angriest, and downright scariest people in the argument who win; for example, look at the Nazis in Germany in the 1930s So these people have it just plain all wrong.

There, now, did I miss anything? =)

Great piece, really, I loved it. Thanks for putting it out there!

Re: How to Disagree

#145

The style of argument you call "Ad Hominem" should really be called "Attacking the author's credibility". The original meaning of ad hominem was not attaching the author but rather appealing to the readers emotions rather than logic. Hence, "think of all the children who will starve due to biofuels", which contains the embedded assumption that biofuels will cause starvation but does not support that argument. In most…

Attacking someone's credibility has no bearing on that person's argument. A true statement spoken by the devil doesn't make that statement false. Next, it's very hard for someone to correctly divine the motives of another. It is often the case that it's easier to make up base motives and assign then to an opponent than it is to refute their argument. Finally, that people "decide their position on an issue and then seek supporting evidence" simply shows that "people" are idiots.

Re: How to Disagree

#147
While some of the lower forms may not be effective in refuting an argument, they may be effective in its discussion. For example, pointing out bias may be considered an ad hominem attack. However, it may also be useful to others while forming their own opinions on the validity of a statement.

Re: How to Disagree

#148
I like where you are going with this business of disagreeing. I'm drawn to the subject.

Question is - what are you (and now, we) really trying to accomplish here - the issue/concern disagreeing?

As Well: What's the context (purpose) for all this disagreeing you talk about? For bringing this subject up for view, in the first place?

   Is it to be right (a bit of arrogance) and try to make the other guy wrong? 
   Is it to get to what works - to learn to say or do something better together (personally or professionally)
What are you looking for - what do you want to change or happen - as an end result of the discourse - disagreement?

John McLaughlin, Day Traders - Consultant / Coach www.DayTradersWin.com

Re: How to Disagree

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That's a fine hierarchy and all. But I have the feeling that a more efficient way of conversation is to get rid of the notion of 'winning' and argument and move to 'solving' the problem. That goes beyond the intellectual and into the cultural - and that is makes it harder - but it would have also more leverage.

Winning is only a problem if your definition of it is fucked up. Winning an argument means you have found or are closer to a particular truth. The poisoning of various phrases and words leads to you focus on the emotions that are evoked rather than the definition. This is why I dislike arguing about politics or anything else. No one wants to really argue (where the argument is a logical and reasoned debate), they wan…

"Winning an argument means you have found or are closer to a particular truth" - no, it means that you convinced others that you are closer to a particular truth.

Definition of win from http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/win

transitive verb

1 a: to get possession of by effort or fortune b: to obtain by work : earn

2 a: to gain in or as if in battle or contest b: to be the victor in

3 a: to make friendly or favorable to oneself or to one's cause —often used with over b: to induce to accept oneself in marriage

4 a: to obtain (as ore, coal, or clay) by mining b: to prepare (as a vein or bed) for regular mining c: to recover (as metal) from ore

5: to reach by expenditure of effort

For me the only matching definition is 2a - the argument is the contest and what you gain is the recognition that you were right.

Re: How to Disagree

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post #45

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Another way out is to simply ignore poor arguments and spend one's scarce time responding to the intelligent ones instead. (Admittedly, this is not always possible or desirable.)

Another way to not lose your time is to stop posting in troll infested comunities; I don't post on Digg anymore for that and I am now slowly fading out of Reddit for the same reason. The problem on those sites is that their is not only poor comments but also tons of users who upmod them.

The problem on those sites is that their is not only poor comments

This is a legitimate problem, and ironically it is a symptom that a news concentrator is becoming a victim of its own success. As the signal-to-noise ratio attracts a progressively larger crowd, the types of information that are viewed as 'signal' broaden to appeal to the lowest common denominator. It's similar to hiring in a small company -- but at least in that situation you have control over the purse strings. (Even the trolls get dumber as time goes by and a site grows more popular.) Thus the comments on an arbitrary story suffer, and it requires more work to pick through them. However, if you 'listen' to subcommunities (eg. economics, programming, math on reddit) you find that (unsurprisingly) the baseline rises again. If you have no interest in those subsets, however, you're kind of out of luck. (But if you're here you already knew that)

You could probably model this as a logistic process, provided that you account for renormalizations (such as the literal renormalization that took place on reddit recently).

but also tons of users who upmod them.

This part (or at least its independent, non-interaction effect) is irrelevant; if you focus solely on people who have strong and demonstrated critical thinking skills, you can learn a great deal, and also gain a different perspective. Their input is much more harmful when it comes to filtering in or out the news to be concentrated.

Most of the interesting threads in which I have participated eventually lost the interest of the masses because they had descended into minutiae. But that's where the interesting bits lay, so that's where they went.

Ignore the riffraff. Lord knows they'll usually ignore you if you're presenting anything challenging. Even in a swamp like Slashdot, there is occasionally a perspective-changing comment that is worth reading.

If you want to expose yourself to a wide variety of opinions, you have to be willing to do a bit of work yourself, and determine which ones hold merit. It's a two-way street, in many respects, and your priorities (in addition to your time pressures) will determine how far you are willing to take it.

It appears to me that the 'social news' sites on the Web are simply recapitulating the arc of the special-interest BBS nodes and Usenet cliques of years past. Everything old is new again.

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