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I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

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Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

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post #30

BTW, this is the ninth time I have submitted this story. But I just knew it fits this audience, so I tried again. So, if you feel your submissions never make it to the front page, realize that much of it is pure chance.

Yeah, @dang this is what I've been saying.

How do you resubmit the same link though? You tack on &attempt=55 to the end?

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#42

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Like: meet [name], actress and model.

I don't think it's quite the same. She could have been living a double life and not been an assassin. They aren't synonymous. People live double lives where they have multiple families, or other things. A double life isn't only reserved for assasins, so the clarification is actually quite important. The author was explaining that he just found out that his girlfriend was living an alternative life in addition to the…

What if the assassin discovers you lead a double life - and assassinates one of your lives - so you have one life? Then double lives would be only for assassins.

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#43
post #14

The first sentence seems something out of Buzzfeed. > ... (with a few conveniently erased). Just... why?

My take:

The author maybe thinks she might feel shame about some of her past sexual partners; maybe he feels shame about some of his and believes given enough time everyone has shame about a sexual partner or two, for whatever reason.

The other option is the author thinks that she believes the author will see her in a negative light for some of her past sexual partners, for whatever reason, so she will not mention the ones that show her in a bad light.

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#44
post #41
post #30

BTW, this is the ninth time I have submitted this story. But I just knew it fits this audience, so I tried again. So, if you feel your submissions never make it to the front page, realize that much of it is pure chance.

Yeah, @dang this is what I've been saying. How do you resubmit the same link though? You tack on &attempt=55 to the end?

One trick is to append a period after the TLD.

So for the link above, it'd be

http://www.independent.co.uk./news/world/americas/i-fell-in-...

Notice the period after ".co.uk" and before the "/"

E.g. "Example.com./"

Having a period after TLD is a valid URL. But rarely seen.

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#45
post #29

>> But her excuses, or lack of them, riled me and I told her she represented everything that was wrong with the country. Bold thing to say to a sociopath with a gun.

Thinking only sociopaths can do really terrible things is likely very wrong. Normal people can decide over some time to switch off empathy, or to work against it. This needs to be understood.

Anger, pain or desperation will make otherwise normal people do some very abnormal things.

Even in the most "civilized" and wealthy of western democracies, 1 week of no food, water and electricity would lead to absolute bedlam.

Three months of that kind of desperation would lead to otherwise normal people killing and robbing strangers. When the crisis abates, they'll be able to rationalize away their behavior because it was necessary.

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#47
post #14

The first sentence seems something out of Buzzfeed. > ... (with a few conveniently erased). Just... why?

Also, this gem:

> We ate on the balcony and, as we shared a bottle of wine and listened to the chorus of insects, I began to think that the year of groundwork I had put in was about to pay off. Marylin stayed the night.

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#48
post #29

>> But her excuses, or lack of them, riled me and I told her she represented everything that was wrong with the country. Bold thing to say to a sociopath with a gun.

Thinking only sociopaths can do really terrible things is likely very wrong. Normal people can decide over some time to switch off empathy, or to work against it. This needs to be understood.

> Normal people can decide over some time to switch off empathy, or to work against it.

Yes, and all it typically takes to turn off empathy is believing they're doing the right thing against "bad" people.

Re: I fell in love with an assassin (2008)

#49
post #41

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Yeah, @dang this is what I've been saying. How do you resubmit the same link though? You tack on &attempt=55 to the end?

One trick is to append a period after the TLD. So for the link above, it'd be http://www.independent.co.uk./news/world/americas/i-fell-in-... Notice the period after ".co.uk" and before the "/" E.g. "Example.com./" Having a period after TLD is a valid URL. But rarely seen.

Interesting -- sounds like you found a bug in the URL checker.
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