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You're joking, surely. XFS has outperformed EXT4 in almost all "high" use-cases in my experience and testing: Large files (500GB~) or many small files (128k files * 2,400,000 or so). EXT4 under those loads is comically bad. BTRFS is also terrible at this, only XFS and ZFS are good at handling it.
On the other hand on database workloads, for example PostgreSQL, XFS and EXT4 are about equal these days. ZFS (at least on Linux) and Btrfs are both clearly slower on those workloads. Here is one benchmark, but I have seen plenty of similar benchmark results for PostgreSQL showing the same thing: https://blog.pgaddict.com/posts/postgresql-performance-on-ex...
So if you only need a plain filesystem, ext4/xfs are great and you will get better performance.
If you need/want snapshots, e.g. to do backups that way, it makes sense to look at ZFS.