Good reminder that you should never be in the mindset of "expecting" a phish from any source - trust is how they get you. Also, if a message was really urgent, you wouldn't have to click-through to see it.
I think I'm misreading your comment, but the best defense against phishing is to always be expecting a phishing attack from every source. Every time you're about to paste your password, glance at the url bar.
Actually - I disagree with this. You can no longer "glance" at the url bar to determine if you are on the right domain due to Unicode chars if you clicked a link.
The only safe way is to type the url yourself into the browser.
If it is a long link - then at least typing the base domain, and pasting the "rest" is probably safe?