I agree you probably won't see much benefit if most of your transactions involve cash-in-a-bank-account or coins on non-Ethereum chains.
However, if:
- Ethereum continues to grow; and
- we continue to see more and more successful/useful coins/tokens built on top of Ethereum (especially if asset-backed ones are accepted as payment);
Then we're going to see a lot more coin-coin transactions that /can/ be done on-chain - at which point a smart contract exchange is attractive (no counterparty risk, no fees, no waiting weeks for document verification, no limits).
Right now today it's possible for me and you to trade millions of dollars worth of tokens such as WINGS, BAT, USD.DC, GNO with each other on https://etherdelta.github.io or https://oasisdex.com/ (and soon https://ubitok.io/) - without needing to get verified or sign up, and only needing to trust that the exchange smart contract behaves as claimed (well, and that we're interacting with the right contract!).
If you don't see smart contracts / decentralised apps working well here, are there any problems where you do see them as being a good solution? A distributed exchange always seemed to me like a bit of a poster child for smart contracts ...