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Yes. [UPDATE: before you downvote this answer you should know that I am the OP.]
Oh, I have totally missed that part. Happy to see that you didn't lose the money without learning something. What decision have you made? Howling with the wolves or getting back to being a sheep? I'm still unclear in this part and actually hoped for some suggestions in one or the other direction.
Seriously though, I do have a strong preference for erring on the side of being ethical and respectful of others. (But that could be the reason none of my companies have succeeded.)