Just to be clear... the "grown up" conversation you wish Americans could stomach is the one that involves socializing medicine and not the one that involves letting random people die needlessly, right?
I am an American. When I'm particularly exasperated with the healthcare system (usually in the weeks/months following some kind of medical engagement) my answer would be "I don't give a damn which we choose. Let's just make a decision to either socialize medicine completely or let people die." (My mood is unreasonably caustic after dealing with anything medical. The stress of dealing with healthcare billing, health i…
Worth noting that the book describing the principles of the UK NHS by its founder was called "In Place of Fear":
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aneurin_Bevan
Medical emergencies are stressful enough when there is no money involved - I have no idea how people cope when there is a stressful financial situation added on top as well.