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Why I deleted my Facebook account

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Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#51

I regret deleting my original Facebook account. I made it around the time they opened to every college in the US and there was a lot of history there, photos and videos and text. Sure most of it was worthless and maybe even embarrassing but that data is gone now.

don't worry, your data is safe and still in FB hands; you just don't have access to it anymore ;)

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#52
post #34

1. Change Password -> generate a random string -> copy paste it as your new password 2. Go to the actual delete facebook account page. 3. Copy that random string in when it asks your password and the captcha 4. Copy something else Now you’ve bypassed their arbitrary and nefarious 14 day filter

What about password reminders? Should we add:

0. create temporary email account and use it as your facebook email address?

I used that tactic successfully in the past.

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

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post #10

It's too late to join the Leaving Facebook party. If you were a regular user since 2005 and leave now, it does not make any difference anymore. The collected data about you is enough to interpolate your profile for the next decades. Of course, decentralization is a valid point and it's really important to get people who are kinda "new" to social media on distributed platforms. Twitter is centralized as well and also…

> The collected data about you is enough to interpolate your profile for the next decades. Did Facebook recently hire Hari Seldon?

Heh, nice reference.

Of course I am exaggerating. But IMO people vastly underestimate how similar their own behaviour is to other people. Meaning, if Facebook "knows" me since 12 years (!) it can very precisely categorize me into a group of people. And those other people do not leave Facebook but feed it more information.

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#54
post #26

This might be an unpopular opinion in the tech-savvy crowd of HN, but while I agree with pretty much 100% of the points brought up in this article, I still disagree that leaving facebook is a net positive. I simply believe that as privacy violating as facebook is, as scary and orwellian their statistical analysis of my life and habits are, they have solved a very real problem for real people: social networking online…

> social networking online...

Isn't this a manufactured problem/requirement?

EDIT: I mean, did people have this problem before social networks?

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#55
post #32

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Forget "friends". Sharing with your family/relatives is a different thing though. No wise "quips" required. A picture says a 100 words :)

Good point... for this, I'm still using Google+. One circle for immediate family, another for wider family... I don't think I bother sharing photos to any wider circles than that at the moment.

except nobody has any family on google+!

the whole world uses whatsapp exactly for that use case you describe.

Sadly both options are awful.

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#56
post #38

I quit Facebook right around the time my son was born. It wasn't for privacy reasons (and frankly, it never bothered me), but rather for the enormous energy and time sink it had become. Truly, it was as if I was a dopamine junkie and Facebook was the pusher of those sweet, sweet red circles with a number in them that meant someone, somewhere vaguely agreed with something you posted. I noticed I was not present in the…

I too feel exactly this way with almost everything. Facebook, Twitter, Slack, Email, Messages ... it's kind of tough to escape. Impossible even. And here's the worst part: We grew up with this shit. My generation was one of the first (1987) to have their formative social years immersed in this shit. That means we'll never escape. Ever. We're literally wired to seek approval of strangers on the internet instead of the…

Impossible is hard to square with the people in this thread (myself included) that did it.

You don't have to tell your boss you're not reading notifications. You just have to eliminate the notifications that serve no purpose except a high. Facebook still spams my email; it's filtered to the trash. Business carries on.

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#57
Even if you were never on facebook, all it takes is for somebody to post a picture in which they can clearly see your face. That's your unique id. Then they will add more information to your profile gathered not from you, but from your friends.

For sure you have somebody in your group that gave them access, without knowing, to their contacts and your number in in there too, to their pictures and your face and easily recognizable landmarks are in there and so on. You might have a massive profile already all due to the little bits of information your friends are giving away.

Another problem is that the profile only grows larger with time. They never delete anything.

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#58

I quit Facebook right around the time my son was born. It wasn't for privacy reasons (and frankly, it never bothered me), but rather for the enormous energy and time sink it had become. Truly, it was as if I was a dopamine junkie and Facebook was the pusher of those sweet, sweet red circles with a number in them that meant someone, somewhere vaguely agreed with something you posted. I noticed I was not present in the…

LinkedIn is perhaps the worst of the bunch though. I see people in "people you may know" that I've already tried to add but LinkedIn will show them to me because I assume they're not the ones spamming if it happens due to me clicking a button. All for a blip in user engagement.

definitely agree for linkedin. another thing about linkedin is that people lie on there all the time and exaggerate their accomplishment

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

#59
post #26

This might be an unpopular opinion in the tech-savvy crowd of HN, but while I agree with pretty much 100% of the points brought up in this article, I still disagree that leaving facebook is a net positive. I simply believe that as privacy violating as facebook is, as scary and orwellian their statistical analysis of my life and habits are, they have solved a very real problem for real people: social networking online…

Thanks for your unpopular input!

  Well, the kicker is obvious: normal people who don't read HN can not. Facebook changed lives for people who "can not".
Agreed! Too many techies are out of touch with "normal" people. "We need to have our own infrastructure!", "Why are you not setting up your own mail server?!" Duh, it's not doable for people outside of the adminsphere!

  The payoff is always "a worse solution but you get to keep your privacy". 
  The reality is, almost nobody wants that 

  who will host it, who will support it, who will pay for it?

  I don't think that's changing anytime soon, because even if the minority 
  ("you and me") may be willing to pay for a substitute to buy out our own 
  privacy, most people won't, and then the whole point falls anyway, because 
  the solutions will obviously not integrate.
Agreed as well! But I don't completely follow your reasoning: I think it is our, the IT's, responsibility to build tools that anybody can use on rented infrastructure. You can automate almost everything nowadays, from bootstrapping the OS to installation of packages and administration via web interfaces. The key point is to keep control over generated data.

Re: Why I deleted my Facebook account

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post #33

I use Facebook as a Google Reader replacement. I don't care what my contacts share. Twitter was my go-to site for this use case (news consumption). But that platform is too polluted now. Feedly was another site I used regularly. Is there any good news reader alternative to the platforms mentioned?

I add rss feeds to a new iftt recipe and send new posts to an emailaddress that ends up in my mailbox. In the mailclient I'm using a filter to automatically move these emails to a separate folder. This is as close to Google reader as I could get and it's working quite well.
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