Earlier quoted context omitted.
You might like to read over the rest of the thread.
I believe I did? But you have to follow the rules regardless of how badly someone else broke them or whether they started it. I know how annoying that is. But it always feels like the other person started it and did worse, so if we don't approach the problem this way, it's a downward spiral for the lot of us.
In this case, the other person said "Many people will just quietly write you off as a hopeless dweeb if you expose your laziness in this way."
Is that not a personal attack because it's hidden behind one layer of indirection?
>if we don't approach the problem this way, it's a downward spiral
I get that it's not easy moderating a site like this when there's only two of you to do the job, but once you've shown up in the thread, is it that much more work to call out everyone involved instead of just picking the last nasty comment?