>I can only assume that you have never worked in any industry in a customer service capacity
Lol wut? Yes, I certainly have. I've worked no less than 4 customer service jobs.
>Tipping is a totally normal thing, that you are free to engage in or abstain from.
Only in the strictly legal sense, not the social sense.
>If you are especially pleased with a service on a particular occasion, then you should tip.
First off, tips for many service employees in the US are not "for exception service," they are "expected for any service."
I'd prefer to live in a society where employees give a pleasing service without expecting a bribe. I would prefer to live in a society where some customers are not snubbed because of the assumption they won't leave a tip, or will leave a small one. I also don't care to turn every single interaction I have throughout the day into a business transaction.
Not only that but you start with "you are free to engage in or abstain from [tips]" then say "you should tip." Which was is it? Completely optional or expected? You claim it's both.
>If you are the type of person who is never pleased with anything
Wow, way to project. I am pleased by pretty much any service as long as the job gets done semi-competently . I don't need anything "extra," or small talk, or even smiles. I have a massive amount of empathy for service employees who aren't property trained and if I have a bad experience I usually blame poor management, not the customer service employee personally. If the place is crowded I understand I'm going to have to wait, through nobody's fault, crowds can't always be anticipated.
Disliking tips is hardly the same thing as being a miserable person who is always unhappy. That's quite the stretch.
>you should certainly feel no obligation to tip, ever.
I am not such an asshole to believe that someone who doesn't smile or is working short staffed deserves to have their pay docked. That's cruel.
The thing about introducing tips is they become "mandatory," because employees and management come to expect tips. This brings down salaries then everyone is guilted into leaving tips. It's no secret that Uber is ruthlessly cutting fairs and now they are basically saying "we expect customers to make up the difference."
Anyways, my comments were not about tipping in general, they were about tip jars, specially. Tip jars are begging and are no different than panhandling. It's a form of guilt tipping(1) and are always distasteful. A business is no place for employees to beg - save that for the streets.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/travel/advice/2016/05/01/tipp...
"If you don't pay up, you're shamed for your lack of generosity, at best — or at worst, for stealing someone's salary."
And, of course,
"He started rattling about how far the cab ride was and how he needed more," she says. "It turned me off. I use Uber now."