Earlier quoted context omitted.
The is a direct correlation between security and fraud related interest/insurance in regards to the cost of use and exposure to fraud. They aren't out to "destroy" your security, it's a liability threshold calculation. At the end of the day secure yourself in life, this include choosing banks that are more stringent based on your needs and what you want to pay.
Which banks should you choose? How do you decide?
You can manage your risk somewhat by:
1) Using credit and not debit cards for day to day spending.
2) Maintaining your long term wealth in separate accounts at separate institutions and not linking them directly to anything except your checking account. This minimizes what can be stolen if your checking account is compromised, and makes it less likely that your savings can be stolen directly (account number is used in fewer places).
3) Turning on all the alerting and notification settings you can find, so that you'll hear about unauthorized activity immediately.