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Working at a startup as an employee with the expectation your gonna get rich is the game . Think about the percentage of their investments that VCs expect will pay off. You could work for 15+ years at startups and never be at the successful one.
Startups say that but I think in many cases applicants go to startups because they can't get a job at a bigco that will pay them more. This especially true for new grads who didn't go to a shiny University. Now this isn't a bad thing as one of the best reasons to go to a startup is to sharpen or learn new skills to become more employable. It's basically what I did till I could swap to a bigco.
I can't speak for others, but I can certainly speak for myself and say that this isn't true. I had my internships at larger companies. Sure, they're not the big 5, but big enough that they're household names. I used them as resume boosters and now _prefer_ startups over large companies.
I was also fortunate enough to grow up without a lot of money, so my lifestyle is fairly affordable and I never had the luxuries that could be difficult to transition to a lifestyle without them. Because of that, and my interest in working on bleeding-edge-and-could-fail tech, I don't mind the risks that startups offer.
I'm confident enough in my skill set that I know I can go after many of those high paying jobs with at least a modicum level of success _somewhere_, but I like the challenges and pace of the startup space instead. I've even rejected offers that offered a larger salary in exchange for a lower salary at a more exciting (and even earlier stage) startup. Does that make me naive/crazy? I don't know, maybe. It's just what excites me more and the tradeoff is worth it for me.