Thank you for elaborating/clarifying your position.
The idea of government actively facilitating a diversity of optional or also private regulatory paradigms is interesting. I imagine there are definite benefits that could result from pursuing ideas like that.
I do worry about the ability or desire of most individuals to analyze and differentiate between such options, especially in cases with high complexity.
For many individuals, even with determined efforts to increase awareness and to educate, it is simply too difficult or time consuming to meaningfully learn if such and such product is actually safe. As technology advances, this dynamic will likely become more magnified. It is fantasy to expect an average individual to be able to determine if an arbitrary safety rating of a self-driving vehicle is trustworthy, for example.
I wouldn't argue that many of our current approaches to regulation are optimal in the slightest. However, I would argue that complexity is increasing faster than our ability to manage it. To me, this implies that we have to make tough trade-offs at times, perhaps accepting some slowdown in growth, in order to not shoot ourselves in the foot.
Perhaps one improvement we could strive towards even now is some sort of entrenched mechanism that would force serious re-evaluation of each regulatory paradigm every so often (perhaps once a decade or so), in order to prevent stagnation and ensure new learnings are incorporated.
I'm not sure how such a thing could be implemented, but anything that moves us closer to internalizing an awareness of current imperfections and the never-ceasing opportunity to make incremental as well fundamental improvements, I think we would reap great benefits over the long term.