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Overall the slowdown is 3.3x, but in memory usage it places third and in startup time it's in the top 10, and both of these are only about 1.1x slower than the fastest. I wonder how many cases would give a better UX to have the smaller, faster to load library.
It's not better UX for the end-user if the app is slower. It's not acceptable to make your life easier as a developer in trade for making a worse app. If the developer ergonomics lead to more features then it may be a good trade-off, but there are too many cases where people will trade performance to make their life easier.
My claim is that for the user's benefit it may be better to choose a library that sacrifices some benchmark performance metrics like "Time to update the text of every 10th row for 10000 rows with 5 warmup iterations." in favor of startup time and memory. These are the exact same tradeoffs that Seth Thompson mentioned in the video, they can't just be dismissed wholesale.
My question is: how many real apps should make this tradeoff for the smaller library?
I would guess "many more than make it now." Developers are wooed by the columns with a lot of pretty green (myself included) and end up making their app worse because they're optimizing for the wrong thing.