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"Cool" for me isn't somewhere that I can say anything I want without concern for how it affects others. Cool is inclusive.
But that's a strawman, since I didn't say that. You talk of vague "inclusivity", and hyperbolic "say anything I want"; but the post specifically referred to "Calling someone a 'princess' for liking salads" - when are we going to be inclusive of differing opinions and forms of expression? Seems a very specific interpretational framework is being mandated here. Using rough language versus running off to HR when offende…
This is also why I originally said it depends on the context. You can say it to a work buddy who you hang out with after hours. You can't say it to someone from another team who you don't know very well. Use your head.