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It doesn't matter whether or not they're greedy assholes (it's probably safe to assume they are). It only matters whether they're willing to invest. So a red flag is a red flag. There are plenty of places for handwaving and hope in startups already. The ownership status of a departed founder should not be one of them. That should be crystal clear.
Well, what you are essentially saying is that if you need money, VCs can and will make you dance to their tunes. That much has been confirmed by Parker Conrad himself, so I agree. It's not really a red flag since he could have a number of reasons for leaving that are not related to the business. But I guess a VC would use anything as an excuse to control and manipulate things. This really puts a giant question mark o…
That's why you set up terms up front. If, when they decided on a 33/33/33 split, they also decided on a vesting schedule, they wouldn't have this problem. The OP would get some percentage value based on math, from contract terms they all agreed to when they started.