It's rather rare to see off the shelf technologies (open or closed) that scale to the top 5%. This makes sense because the techniques required at that level are pretty different, and don't apply well to other situations.
So, making an off the shelf product that actually does scale to the top 5% rarely makes sense, since, at best, the customer base will be limited. In the average case, though, the customer base will be almost nil, because of the per-site quirks and customization that are always present.
I experienced this on a weekly basis in the late 1990s and early 2000s at WalMart, where we were centrally managing a network with well over 10 million nodes.
Every vendor ever constantly tried to get in with us, so we had to come up with a triage system or an enormous portion of our time would be spent evaluating.
Even those best of breed would almost never work for us, because of our unprecedented scale (at the time).
In the rare case where an off the shelf product was selected and successful, it had to be heavily customized.
I am of course talking more about 'framework' kinds of tech, or, I guess, things that work at scale. A lot of off the shelf tech was and is used that isn't scale related.