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Fuck, mate. You really don't understand the world of abuse.
actually i was abused. So i understand more than nothing.
Then it's pretty incomprehensible that you'd label a victim of abuse as "sick".
Silicon Valley CEO Pleads ‘No Contest’ to Abusing His Wife
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> Is hitting your kids any less morally despicable than hitting your spouse? > Why does such a large section of society think it's OK to hit your kids and not your spouse? It's not OK. Beating your kids is not OK. Beating your wife is not OK. Beating anyone is not OK. Resolving to violence is weak. One of the cases is when adult tries to explain something to kid but kid can't understand. Adult gets frustrated and sta…
It's only ok when we are beating North Korea
Please stop posting unsubstantively.
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#43Reading this made me want to throw up. Absolutely horrible. But then while listening to the video, I realized the recording sounded a lot like what I would hear when my parents beat my siblings/myself as kids for doing something wrong. This made me wonder: Is hitting your kids any less morally despicable than hitting your spouse? Why does such a large section of society think it's OK to hit your kids and not your spo…
My dad spanked me with a wooden stick. I think it was good for me.
My dad did the same and i look back at how/why it was done and see no issues.
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actually i was abused. So i understand more than nothing.
Then it's pretty incomprehensible that you'd label a victim of abuse as "sick".
people who know anything about abuse realize that there's almost always enablement on the victims behalf for abuse to continue beyond a very small number of instances. Think of the alcoholic's spouse. The spouse often makes excuses for the alcoholic, often struggles to ensure the finances remain in order, that the alcoholic's responsibilities are taken care of when they're drunk etc.
In this case it sounds like codependence. She was afraid and unable to do what she must to avoid the abuse from her spouse . Yes, she's a victim in the initial case(s) but subsequent cases it begs what is out of order in her that she didnt leave, didnt value her and her child enough to seek the health and safety ? Thats the sick part. A healthy person wouldnt take that abuse.
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#45The link is malware to my iPhone. Locks me into a full screen ad for winning something, then breaks the back button. Had to close the page.