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> I'm not totally convinced your story with the cup of water was an ego related issue. Ok. > The workflow of doctors in the hospital is complicated, and different doctors and nurses have different privileges for different patients, which can make things appear to be ego related. In your scenario, you're a post-operative patient. Your primary doctor is likely the surgeon that performed surgery on you. I'm thinking the…
Obviously I don't know all the details of your story, but I'm still a little skeptical. Yes, there are likely doctors out there that do believe they're too good to get water for patients, but I haven't worked with any like that yet. I have rounded with doctors who have delegated simple tasks like getting water to someone else, but it's always been to either save time or avoid giving water to someone who isn't allowed…
No, it was there during the operation, not for feeding.
> Again, I don't know all the details, but I'd imagine what happened is that your consulting doctor saw you had an NG or OG tube and wasn't sure why.
No, this was definitely not the case.
> All of this leads to miscommunication, misunderstandings, and massive/frequent problems like your experience.
This may sound funny to you, but ego or miscommunication doesn't matter to me, the end result is what matters. If you can't communicate or have an inflated ego I'd rather not have you as my doctor because either one of those is an ingredient in a recipe for an accident.