Is this really that different from Verizon phones having Google services enabled by default (if that's even true -- I don't use Verizon). Why is Verizon spying on you any worse, or better than Google or Facebook? No one should spy on you. Period.
By using Google's free services you agree to giving them data - that's not how customers want to use an ISP. Google is a company that relies on trust. If I can't trust them with my data their business will seriously suffer. Verizon in no way cares about users trusting them, it's not in their business model. It needs to be a choice what companies I trust with my data
Edit: This may be an unpopular conclusion but it based on facts.
https://www.cnet.com/news/people-trust-nsa-more-than-google-...