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Check out The Great Suspender [1] - not quite what you mean, but it basically unloads the tab and replaces it with a bare bones placeholder after it's been inactive for a bit. When you come back to it, you just click the link and it reloads the url that it had. Super handy if you're in the habit of leaving a few windows with a few dozen tabs each laying around, as I do. [1]: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/…
Just curious - I wonder why this hasn't been updated since 2015.
[1]: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/the-great-discarde...