23:00-ish YP thinks that perhaps pg_basebackup is being super pedantic about there being an empty data directory, decides to remove the directory. After a second or two he notices he ran it on db1.cluster.gitlab.com, instead of db2.cluster.gitlab.com Good lesson on the risks of working on a live production system late at night when you're tired and/or frustrated.
I'm not sure there is a "late" at night or tired in the incident report. All times are UTC and it's unclear where all the team is located but if in SF then this is at 4pm which is when the incident just occurred. It doesn't necessarily change that you shouldn't be firefighting for extremely long cycles in hero-mode for that long, but not exactly the same as exhausted and powering away for hours.
"At this point frustration begins to kick in. Earlier this night YP explicitly mentioned he was going to sign off as it was getting late (23:00 or so local time), but didn’t due to the replication problems popping up all of a sudden."