>The republican party is simply unacceptable on many levels for any intelligent, honest person.
Anyone who would say this with a straight face isn't intelligent or isn't honest, so they can't speak for intelligent honest people.
>but most of us don't.
Who exactly do you think you are speaking for? Identity politics and strong liberal populations in universities has made it social suicide for anyone to admit they have any doubts about the Democratic party.
>We wouldn't be allowed to run as a republican if we were 'fiscally conservative' but felt that gays should be treated as people
Two seconds of Googling reveals your bullshit: http://ijr.com/2014/10/185584-9-prominent-republicans-who-su...
Humans have and can be elected into the Republican party and that's how you achieve change.
>freedom and NOT BE fiscally conservative in the way the republican party is. It has no evidence supporting its efficacy!
The situation in Greece and various other European countries seems to suggest you can't buy your way out of a recession with entitlements either. You'll find very little evidence supporting the efficacy of any system that translates well to the US, which has the irritating job of being the entire Western World's military.