Like it or not Autistic people will be weeded out of society through fetal genetic testing or other interventions. It will be a net loss for humanity, but I don't think there's anyway to stop it. It's a paradox in that it's nearly impossible to appreciate the value of neurodiversity until you build a close relationship with such a person. My cousin Tony with Downs's would have most likely been aborted decades ago if…
On the other hand I have heard more than once people who do sometimes very secretly confess they wish their cousin/brother/etc with Down's had been aborted. They always talk about all the love and joy and positive things too. But at the end of the day, they say, they think they would have preferred it the other way. But this is not pretty, and it's not something people like to talk about. So if you just take what peo…
I'm pretty sure that's a minority though. I'm involved in an organization where I interact with lots of ASD families and anecdotally at least there are not many regrets.
The best way I know to explain it is this: http://www.our-kids.org/Archives/Holland.html