"I don't think max performance is an issue at all"
I'll consider believing that when you remove both the performance-enhancing aspects and their marketing from your company's products that appear to target enterprise space of people using GC's and concurrency. Rust's safety w/out performance hit affects those two, specific areas. I think they might be interested.
Not to mention businesses doing analysis they want to happen faster, game developers, real-time groups wanting no runtime (or close to it), HPC that definitely cares about max performance, and small (or cloud) companies like those switching from Python to Go specifically due to lower costs from higher performance. Maxing performance is always a benefit if you can tell them it saves time or money but comes with the tools essentially free. That's actually how a lot of better JVM's (esp AOT) were sold.
"(there are realtime GCs, and GC languages do support arena GC allocation in embedded and realtime settings, like realtime Java)"
They're not default in these GC languages. We both know about them but most people don't. I've been telling Java & C# developers about those things for years with not one ever having heard of it before. Recently explaining to people that think an OS can't be written in Go that both OS's w/ GC languages & real-time, concurrent GC's existed. So, in their minds, there's horrid C/C++ w/ no safety, all these languages with GC's that have GC issues, and now a safe language with no GC. It's a perception thing that gives Rust an advantage over tech you described.
" but on those for whom the language is indispensable, or tremendously beneficial."
I'll cede you that. This would almost solely be aimed at the C, C++, Objective-C, and Fortran crowds. People stuck with caveman tools and unsafety.
"and for systems programming, that network is not well represented on HN and Reddit."
Definitely true.
"end up making up most of the community, they may slowly push the language in directions that may make it less appealing to those who really need it."
This is a real risk they should consider more. The best route would probably be to send people to the sites, conferences, and companies heavily into C and C++ for many use-cases. Get all this feedback they're getting from them at least as much as the others if not more. That might inform the language design in a way that addresses the risk you're bringing up.