Not a bad post at all and it definitely hit home for me. I'm 43 and have been doing professional development for 20 years (actually 20 years). I moved permanently to Saigon just 1.5 months ago. I'm teaching the Pivotal software engineering process (agile / extreme) to a 100 person consultancy full of really smart ~20 year olds who didn't know or understand process at all. I keep up on all the latest tech and I have a…
Some pretty sweeping generalizations about the culture after only 1.5 months. I live in a country neighboring Vietnam and there are similar perceptions of the culture here, yet in my experience these ideas are baseless and often ingrained in expats well before ever learning the language or sometimes even before entering the country.
Yes, there is a ton of racism and generalizations among expats. As soon as I got here, I was added to a few private facebook groups where expats vent steam over the craziness of this country. I'm actually not a fan of it because it is honestly very racist, but I want to know both sides of the story. Much like democrats read republican news.
The language is hard and learning is going to take me years. I'm trying my best, but when I say something as simple as 'một' (the number 1) to someone, they rarely understand me. Vietnamese also want to learn english (my company has a full time english teacher) and will not help me.
So instead of language, I've focused on learning the culture first and in 1.5 months (also this isn't the first time here, so it is more like 2.5 months) I think I have a pretty good handle on a lot of it. I make 1-2 (or more) new friends daily thanks to the friendliness of the people and because I'm out there networking like crazy. I have over a hundred friends here now, both from business and personal.
If I stop liking it here, I'll leave. I don't see that happening any time soon though.