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> It is because you do not comment according to the guidelines, which encourage people to start conversation with reasoning Not strictly. The guidelines encourage people to start conversation with reasoning, but also encourage people to downvote for disagreeing. So, there's some dissonance in there as it says, effectively: "make well-reasoned arguments with which everyone can agree."
The guidelines aren't there to help you get upvotes. Moreover, it says nothing about how / why to downvote, much less encourage people to do so. The fact that it's ok to downvote when disagreeing is something that pg once wrote in a comment (don't have the link).
I don't think anyone is suggesting that guidelines are designed to help people get upvotes. In fact, my comment wasn't about upvotes at all, but how encouragement to downvote for disagreement undermines constructive discussion and contradicts the GP's guideline-citing assertion that well-constructed arguments are valued most.