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I knew it was rare for people to know manual transmissions, but why such a preference for automatic?I think this is twofold. First off, most drivers education doesn't teach a manual transmission anymore, nor is drivers education a requirement. While my parents learned on a simulator in school, I learned it from experience (and so happy I did) - my first car was a manual.
But the second part of this is that there tends to be a very small number of cars that even offer a manual transmission: Generally small cars, pickup trucks, and "sporty" cars. I live in Norway now, and have a smallish 4-door sedan with a manual transmission: The same sort of car is difficult to find in the US.
The masculinity still happens, but I think it is simply plays out differently. In a lot of areas, you are just as masculine in a pickup truck as a vehicle.
Sidenote: I am with you with preferring a manual transmission. In fact, knowing how to drive one and understanding the gears helped me with an automatic once.