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Yeah, I agree that the Scouts can be a bad place for that kind of things, which is why I think it might not be good for all childrens. (I had been a Scout for a few year and got a lot of benefits from it, but I know that my brother bullied a lot the younger scouts, so this is a real problem)
I help to run a Scout group in the UK. All adult volunteers receive anti-bullying and child safeguarding training. In my experience - bullying is not tolerated in 'these times'. But for sure, do what you think is best for your kids.
I don’t have kids yet, but I think that scouting is a good option. Still, the experience one child will have will vary wildly from one scout association to the other and one local organization to the other, mostly because it depends a lot on the people he will end up with.
Also congrats on your engagement ! I always had a lot of respect for those who helped run our groups.