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There's also something to be said for having a build system that can correctly do incremental rebuilds and caching of outputs, which could massively ease the SSD write load.
You guys are all adorable software devs :-). You're trying to solve a problem with software that just isn't that big a deal: high endurance drives exist, or just buy a new one every year.
Bandaid solutions (replace every x months, buy something bigger/faster, etc) are not the way to go. The hardware solution to this is not buy a high-endurance drive but to buy more RAM and set up a tmpfs build directory - or buy a ram drive and use that for build instead of you want to eliminate even that software configuration step.