Just to add more anecdata:
* 150-year-old rowhome in central Pennsylvania, USA.
* 2 adults, 2 small children, dog/cat.
* Window unit air conditioners (2 running most of the time in summer, with a 3rd in the attic office running a lot less since I don't use it much). Hoping to install mini-split system eventually, but it's low priority
* Gas steam heat
* Gas stove/oven
* Gas water heater (I think)
* Electric baseboard heat in 2 rooms
* Electronics: tv/roku, modem/router, 2 laptops. 2 phones charged occasionally
* Lights are almost entirely CFL/LED.
My usage over the past year is just a hair under 14,000 kWh. Around 1500/mo when the A/C or baseboard heaters are on. Lowest months were April/May when both of those were off and I dipped down to 500 kWh.
If my math is right, most of the rest may be due to ceiling fans -- we have 5-6 that are left on pretty much year-round. Assuming they're each 75 watts, that's around 50 kWh/mo per fan. It never occurred to me to wonder how much power they might use.
So, if I leave A/C and baseboard heating off, and only run fans in currently-occupied rooms (bedrooms at night, living/dining/kitchen during the day), my usage would be about 4000 kWh/year.
How do you use so much less? Tiny efficient fridge? That's the only big item left in my house.