These parents, however, don't see anything they recognize as "math". They're afraid their kid is going to fall behind, so they're giving their kid worksheets at home focusing on two-digit addition and subtraction. Their kid doesn't like math already, because at home math is just writing things on a piece of paper with little meaning. This is sad to me, because there are so many interesting things you can do with your kids at home to help them develop their mathematical understanding.
Our educational issues with math start young, and they come from adults. I'm fortunate to work in a small high school where I get to treat each kid individually. It's wonderful to meet kids where they're at, and help them move forward and start to enjoy math again.